{"id":215,"date":"2010-10-11T01:21:00","date_gmt":"2010-10-11T01:21:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/txcolliers.net\/wordpress\/?p=215"},"modified":"2010-10-11T01:21:00","modified_gmt":"2010-10-11T01:21:00","slug":"i-wish-tartan-had-been-there","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/txcolliers.net\/wordpress\/i-wish-tartan-had-been-there\/","title":{"rendered":"I wish Tartan had been there"},"content":{"rendered":"<p  style=\"color: rgb(204, 204, 204);font-family:georgia;\"><span style=\"font-size:100%;\">I&#8217;m sitting at Whataburger, taking up a whole corner with my tribe of  six- most of us wearing our AWANA shirts. A gentleman passes by on his  way out wearing skull cap and shawl; he smiles slightly at us and I  incline my head in acknowledgment. A couple of minutes later he returns  with a set of toy fairybutterfly wings and wand and offers them to me  for my little ones. I accept, wondering where this will go and he tells  us he is a missionary and asks my name and where I am from. I briefly  explain and ask where he&#8217;s from- Wisconsin. Did I ask his name? No- I&#8217;m  an awful conversationalist with strangers. He asks how many kids I have  and I claim all six and then he asks what their giftings are. Um, I&#8217;m  not sure what he&#8217;s looking for and say so but I can&#8217;t find the words to  explain that while my husband and I are always trying to discern the  gifts God has blessed our children with- I don&#8217;t like to discuss them  lest they feel like their being compared or compartmentalized. (We talk  about them one-on-one or as a family, but I *try* not to say &#8220;this is  the organized one, this one is the people-person&#8221; in front of them to  others) Aimee pipes up with a wave and &#8220;hello&#8221; and he delightedly says  she&#8217;s a greeter. Well, that sounds ok. Then he goes on to explain we  must give wings to our children and how the butterfly starts off as a  gentle, crawling creature that becomes a beautiful butterfly. Okay&#8230; I just  sit there smiling and nodding my head- and not thinking of anything to  say. He finishes off by thanking me for blessing the world with my  children; I smile and nod and thank him for the wingswand. He says  &#8220;blessings to you&#8221; and Alex pipes up with &#8220;God bless you&#8221; as he walks  out the door. <\/span><\/p>\n<p  style=\"color: rgb(204, 204, 204);font-family:georgia;\"><span style=\"font-size:100%;\">I&#8217;m sitting there thinking- I wish  Tartan had been here! He would have continued the conversation and asked  questions and at least found out who he was a missionary for. <\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia;font-size:100%;\" ><br \/><\/span><span style=\"color: rgb(204, 204, 204); font-family: georgia;font-size:100%;\"  >Alex  steps away from the table for a moment and then I notice the man&#8217;s keys  sitting on my table. Without really thinking, I send Aidan outside with  them thinking that the man must be out in the parking lot and has not  realized yet that he&#8217;s missing his keys. Aidan starts across the lot and  I have a moment of panic- I have no idea if this guy is who he presents  himself as and I just sent my son out there alone. Fortunately I can  see them clearly from where I&#8217;m sitting and it&#8217;s obvious I&#8217;m watching  intently. As Aidan hands over the keys, they speak briefly and then he walks off. According to Aidan, he was parked at the car wash and was searching the ground around his car when he came out. Aidan says he was told to help his mom, do his chores and be an example to his sisters. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: georgia;font-size:100%;\" ><\/p>\n<p><\/span><span style=\"color: rgb(204, 204, 204); font-family: georgia;font-size:100%;\"  >So *now* I&#8217;m wondering- was he a Jew, a messianic Jew, or none of the above? Did he recognize our AWANA shirts or did he just guess that since Alex and Aidan&#8217;s shirts said &#8220;Truth and Training&#8221;, we believed there is such a thing as truth and it&#8217;s worth training our children to know? Considering the size of our family, did he think we were Mormon or Catholic? *sigh* Wish Tartan had been there.<\/span><span style=\"font-family: georgia;font-size:100%;\" ><\/p>\n<p><\/span><span style=\"color: rgb(204, 204, 204); font-family: georgia;font-size:100%;\"  >Tongue-tied,<\/span><span style=\"font-family: georgia;font-size:100%;\" ><br \/><\/span><span style=\"color: rgb(204, 204, 204); font-family: georgia;font-size:100%;\"  >Naomi for the Colliers<\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m sitting at Whataburger, taking up a whole corner with my tribe of six- most of us wearing our AWANA shirts. A gentleman passes by on his way out wearing<\/p>\n<p class=\"more-link\"><a href=\"https:\/\/txcolliers.net\/wordpress\/i-wish-tartan-had-been-there\/\" class=\"readmore\">Continue reading&#8230;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">I wish Tartan had been there<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"episode_type":"","audio_file":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","filesize_raw":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"activitypub_content_warning":"","activitypub_content_visibility":"local","activitypub_max_image_attachments":3,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"series":[],"class_list":["post-215","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"episode_featured_image":false,"episode_player_image":"https:\/\/txcolliers.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/plugins\/seriously-simple-podcasting\/assets\/images\/no-album-art.png","download_link":"","player_link":"","audio_player":false,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":{"apple_podcasts":{"key":"apple_podcasts","url":"","label":"Apple Podcasts","class":"apple_podcasts","icon":"apple-podcasts.png"},"stitcher":{"key":"stitcher","url":"","label":"Stitcher","class":"stitcher","icon":"stitcher.png"},"google_podcasts":{"key":"google_podcasts","url":"","label":"Google Podcasts","class":"google_podcasts","icon":"google-podcasts.png"},"spotify":{"key":"spotify","url":"","label":"Spotify","class":"spotify","icon":"spotify.png"}},"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/txcolliers.net\/wordpress\/feed\/podcast\/the-colliers","embedCode":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"5t3DzTAcbw\"><a href=\"https:\/\/txcolliers.net\/wordpress\/i-wish-tartan-had-been-there\/\">I wish Tartan had been there<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/txcolliers.net\/wordpress\/i-wish-tartan-had-been-there\/embed\/#?secret=5t3DzTAcbw\" width=\"500\" height=\"350\" title=\"&#8220;I wish Tartan had been there&#8221; &#8212; The Colliers\" data-secret=\"5t3DzTAcbw\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! 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